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\n<\/picture>Most of us were taught how to dial in a good guitar tone long before anyone showed us how to survive the life around it. We learn how to fix cables, swap tubes, and restring in the dark. We spend hours obsessing over which overdrive is \u201cmore transparent.\u201d But we spend almost no time on how to get through it all without wrecking our relationships, our bank accounts, or heads.<\/p>\n
The gap between how seriously we take our role and how casually we treat our physical and mental health is where burnout lives.<\/p>\n
Musicians\u2019 burnout doesn\u2019t usually appear as a single big breakdown. It\u2019s a slow drift from \u201cI can’t believe I get to do this\u201d to \u201cI don\u2019t know who I am without this \u2013 but I\u2019m miserable.\u201d<\/p>\n
Article continues below <\/span><\/p>\n Dr. Ash King, mental health and wellbeing lead at Support Act in Australia, hears it every day on the phone. She says: \u201cThe biggest pressures are chronic overwork, financial instability, and identity strain. Long stretches of high-intensity work with very little recovery time.<\/p>\n \u201cSleep disruption. Alcohol heavy environments. Unpredictable income. Relationship breakdowns at home. Add to that the emotional labor of being \u2018on\u2019 every night, and the nervous system never fully powers down.\u201d<\/p>\n Liam Hennessy, head of service delivery at Music Minds Matter in the UK, sees similar patterns. \u201cBurnout often shows up in a few familiar ways,\u201d he says. \u201cExhaustion from relentless touring or gigging, anxiety around income and career sustainability, and the emotional strain of tying your identity so closely to your creative work.<\/p>\n \u201cWhen your passion is also your livelihood, setbacks can feel deeply personal.\u201d<\/p>\n All the latest guitar news, interviews, lessons, reviews, deals and more, direct to your inbox!<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n Burnout is best viewed as a series of pressures that are layered and interconnected, rather than a single issue or breaking point. \u201cFinancial vulnerability, health and mental health rarely exist in isolation,\u201d says Theresa Wolters, executive director of MusiCares in the US. \u201cWhat may begin as financial stress or physical fatigue can evolve into anxiety, depression, isolation, or burnout.\u201d<\/p>\n Data from MusiCares\u2019 Wellness in Music survey shows that more than 11 percent of music professionals reported suicidal thoughts in the past year \u2013 more than double the rate in the general US population. After years of anecdotal evidence, this sort of research is finally bringing to light the severity of the issues.<\/p>\n A friend of mine has spent years touring in heavy music. Every time he flies interstate for shows, his partner assumes he\u2019s cheating. It doesn\u2019t matter how many times he explains he\u2019s onstage, loading out or crashed in a terrible bed \u2013 the suspicion is always there.<\/p>\n I try to be on the other side. On one run of shows with my band, the motel booking was wrong \u2013 again \u2013 and we had two beds for three people. My partner at the time was also a musician, and she trusted me. But I sent her a video anyway: one guitarist snoring, one drummer with coffee, me on a kid-sized pull-out bed. No groupies, no drama; just three tired idiots in bad lighting.<\/p>\n Hennessy emphasises the importance of this kind of connection: \u201cTaking time to check in with people you trust and sharing honestly about how you\u2019re doing can help prevent feelings of isolation.\u201d<\/p>\n Burnout isn’t just about you \u2013 it\u2019s about the people around you quietly giving up because they feel permanently pushed to the edges. They\u2019ve effectively been an unpaid support act for your life.<\/p>\n Setting expectations before things get busy makes a difference. Telling your partner, \u201cThese next four weeks are heavy; here\u2019s when I\u2019m around, here\u2019s when I\u2019m not, here\u2019s how we’ll stay in touch,\u201d beats leaving them guessing.<\/p>\n A 10-minute call at the same time after each show is better than three days of silence followed by a flood of texts. And don\u2019t just send stage shots \u2013 send the empty rooms, the bad coffee, the six-hour drive.<\/p>\n Money stress quietly drives more burnout than bad stages ever will. The Wellness in Music survey shows that 35-40 percent of US music professionals attribute their anxiety and depression to financial concerns.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve seen it play out in many ways. I\u2019ve had friends who missed family funerals because they couldn\u2019t afford to skip a paid gig. I’ve been in bands where resentment over money has driven members to quit. I\u2019ve watched players sell gear they love \u2013 and need \u2013 to cover rent between tours.<\/p>\n The math never really adds up unless you\u2019re in that tiny top tier of professional musicians. Pretending otherwise just makes things worse.<\/p>\n Knowing your real cost per gig \u2013 fuel, food, accommodation, parking, lost income from other work \u2013 changes how you negotiate. Once you see those numbers laid out, it\u2019s harder to say yes to things that are hurting your finances.<\/p>\n Talking numbers inside the band matters too. Hidden financial resentment destroys more bands than bad solos ever will. A low-paid gig doesn’t mean you\u2019re a low-value musician. Sometimes you say yes for strategy; sometimes for fun; sometimes you say no. The key is to choose knowingly.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t completely control sleep on the road, but you can stop treating it as optional. Taking 20 to 30 minutes after a show with no socials, no emails, and no arguments helps. Stretch, shower, use headphones, do breath work \u2013 anything that tells your nervous system the gig is over.<\/p>\n Rotating who drives, who packs, and who handles the money and merch also matters. One person being the hero every night is a fast track to resentment and burnout.<\/p>\n Dr. King\u2019s advice is simple: schedule recovery as deliberately as you schedule shows. \u201cSmall routines like a daily walk or 10 minutes of quiet before soundcheck matter,\u201d she says. \u201cTalk early. Check in with someone before you\u2019re overwhelmed \u2013 a bandmate, manager, or counsellor. Silence escalates stress.\u201d<\/p>\n Sleep, nutrition, hydration, movement, and rest are not luxuries \u2013 they\u2019re essential to sustaining creative and professional performance<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/figure>\n The comedown after a big run can hit harder than the run itself. King recommends planning that landing: think about what the week after<\/em> a tour will look like: who you\u2019ll see, how you\u2019ll rest. The nervous system needs the landing strip as much as it needs the runway.<\/p>\n Hennessy agrees. \u201cA big one is making time for proper rest, wherever possible,\u201d he says. \u201cTouring schedules can be relentless, but sleep and recovery are very important if you want to stay physically and mentally well over the long term.\u201d<\/p>\n MusiCares\u2019 Wolters says we should see the process as preventive care. \u201cSleep, nutrition, hydration, movement, and rest are not<\/em> luxuries \u2013 they\u2019re essential to sustaining creative and professional performance,\u201d Wolters says. \u201cSmall, consistent habits make a difference.\u201d<\/p>\n Burnout sneaks up, but it does give early warnings \u2013 dreading gigs you used to love, numbness, snapping at people, drinking more just to get through. King reveals the two myths that come up regularly when someone finally reaches out.<\/p>\n \u201cThe biggest myth is \u2018everyone else is coping,\u2019\u201d she says. \u201cPeople compare their insides to other people\u2019s stage personas, and decide they\u2019re the weak link. Another common one is, \u2018I don\u2019t have it bad enough yet.\u2019 Support is not only for crisis \u2013 early support prevents<\/em> crisis.\u201d<\/p>\n Wolters deals with similar barriers: \u201cOne of the biggest is stigma \u2013 the idea that asking for help is a sign of weakness, failure, or unprofessionalism,\u201d she says. \u201cWe also frequently hear, \u2018Other people probably need this more than I do.\u2019 The truth is: if you\u2019re struggling, you deserve help. No one has to wait until they’re in crisis to reach out.\u201d<\/p>\n There\u2019s also a strong culture of toughness in parts of the industry. Pushing through is often rewarded; but earning your stripes as a professional should not mean getting ill. You don’t have to wait until everything explodes before you’re allowed to ask for help. Having one trusted person in your circle that you can text \u201cI\u2019m not okay\u201d without a long explanation matters.<\/p>\n Your guitar doesn\u2019t get offended if you swap pickups or change strings, but your body and mind aren\u2019t that simple. They\u2019re impacted by every all-nighter, every bad load-in, every \u201cit\u2019s fine; I\u2019ll cope.\u201d<\/p>\n Sometimes permission to step back is what you need most. Taking a break, changing how you tour, or saying no to a run that will break you is not failure. It\u2019s maintenance.<\/p>\n Treat your body and mind as part of the tour infrastructure. The show is important \u2013 so are you<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/figure>\n King puts it simply: \u201cYou are not a machine. Treat your body and mind as part of the tour infrastructure. Protect them the way you would protect your gear. The show is important \u2013 so are you.\u201d<\/p>\n The music industry isn\u2019t going to fix this for us any time soon. But we can start fixing it ourselves by rejecting the idea that suffering is proof of commitment, by supporting each other and by sharing the help that\u2019s available.<\/p>\n Tune your rig, keep your chops up, chase the songs that light you up \u2013 and build a life around it that you can actually survive.<\/p>\n Help Musicians (UK), Support Act (Australia), and MusiCares (US) exist specifically because this life is hard \u2013 and you\u2019re not weak for using them.<\/p>\n Support Act’s Wellbeing Helpline offers 12 free counselling sessions per year \u2013 confidential support designed specifically for people working in music and the arts.<\/p>\n MusiCares provides confidential financial assistance, recovery support, and preventive care.<\/p>\n The UK-based Music Minds Matter\u2019s 24\/7 helpline is for people working in music who need a listening ear from someone who understands the unique pressures of the industry. Music Minds Matter has also developed a simple checklist that encourages people to ask themselves how they\u2019re really doing.<\/p>\n Help Musicians is conducting what aims to be the largest-ever survey into mental health across the UK music industry, inviting people from every part of the ecosystem to share their experiences. If you’re working in UK music you can contribute<\/a>.<\/p>\n Help Musicians<\/strong><\/a> (UK): 0808 802 8008<\/strong>![\"music](\"https:\/\/cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net\/QpTCgCRx3SC2JLXJhZnVRh.jpg\")
\n<\/picture><\/p>\n<\/div>Make your relationships part of the plan<\/h2>\n
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\n<\/picture><\/p>\n<\/div>Face the money conversations early<\/h2>\n
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\n<\/picture><\/p>\n<\/div>Treat sleep and recovery as part of the show<\/h2>\n
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Have a plan for when it all becomes too much<\/h2>\n
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\n<\/picture><\/p>\n<\/div>Remember you\u2019re not gear<\/h2>\n
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Help is at hand<\/h2>\n
Support Act<\/strong><\/a> (Australia): 1800 959 500<\/strong>
MusiCares<\/strong><\/a> (US): 1-800-687-4227<\/strong><\/p>\n