{"id":846541,"date":"2025-05-07T18:13:27","date_gmt":"2025-05-07T23:13:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/2025\/05\/07\/this-11-year-old-skipped-school-over-climate-anxiety-heres-how-theyre-learning-to-cope\/"},"modified":"2025-05-07T18:13:27","modified_gmt":"2025-05-07T23:13:27","slug":"this-11-year-old-skipped-school-over-climate-anxiety-heres-how-theyre-learning-to-cope","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/2025\/05\/07\/this-11-year-old-skipped-school-over-climate-anxiety-heres-how-theyre-learning-to-cope\/","title":{"rendered":"This 11-year-old skipped school over climate anxiety. Here&#8217;s how they&#8217;re learning to cope"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"detailContent\">\n<p><span><a class href=\"http:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/news\/canada\/saskatchewan\"><span>Saskatchewan<\/span><\/a><span><span>\u00b7<\/span><span data-live=\"false\" data-breaking=\"false\">BEAUTIFUL MESS<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Kik\u00e9 Dueck, 11, didn&#8217;t show up to school one day. Their parents were panicked and police were notified. Turns out Kik\u00e9 had skipped school to go protest about climate change. Kik\u00e9\u2019s parents explain how they&#8217;re now helping their child channel eco-anxiety into tangible action to protect the earth.<\/p>\n<h2 lang=\"en\">These parents are finding ways to guide their child through that anxiety<\/h2>\n<div>\n<figure>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt src=\"https:\/\/i.cbc.ca\/1.5819716.1606505971!\/fileImage\/httpImage\/image.jpg_gen\/derivatives\/square_1180\/nichole-huck.jpg?im=Resize%3D114\" data-cy=\"author-image-img\"><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<div>\n<p><span data-cy=\"author-text\"><a class href=\"http:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/news\/author\/nichole-huck-1.3225303\">Nichole Huck<\/a><\/span> <span> \u00b7 <\/span>CBC News<\/p>\n<p><span> \u00b7 <\/span><time datetime=\"2025-04-22T14:56:52.991Z\">Posted: Apr 22, 2025 8:00 AM EDT | Last Updated: April 22<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-cy=\"storyWrapper\">\n<figure>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A mother, father and 11-year -old child examine a seedling outside. \" src=\"https:\/\/i.cbc.ca\/1.7505755.1744226331!\/fileImage\/httpImage\/image.jpg_gen\/derivatives\/16x9_1180\/dueck-family.jpg?im=Resize%3D780\" data-cy=\"leadmedia-story-img\" fetchpriority=\"high\"><\/p><figcaption>Kris Dueck, Dennie Fornwald and 11-year-old Kik\u00e9 sort through seedlings at the family&#8217;s home. Caring for baby trees that will eventually get planted  in a nearby urban forest is a way for Kik\u00e9 to channel climate change worry into tangible action.  (Nichole Huck\/CBC )<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<div>\n<p><strong><em>Beautiful Mess is a series that mines the wisdom of parents in Saskatchewan who have experienced difficult circumstances.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When Dennie Fornwald got a call at work on a Friday morning that her 11-year-old hadn&#8217;t shown up to school, the Regina woman felt sick to her stomach.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The school, their friends and family and eventually the police were all out searching for her\u00a0child.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Police eventually located the Grade 6 student outside the Saskatchewan legislature.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Kik\u00e9, who uses they\/them pronouns, had\u00a0printed off small flyers about climate change and was handing them out to people.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That day and the days before, I felt so down and hopeless,&#8221; Kik\u00e9 said.\u00a0&#8220;I had read books that action is the best antidote for this. I felt there was nothing else I could do, so I went to the legislature alone.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Fornwald was on an emotional roller-coaster that morning.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There was a part of me that was angry that they did this without asking and that they didn&#8217;t think about the consequences, but mostly I was just so relieved they were OK.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Fornwald and her husband Kris Dueck\u00a0felt sad they hadn&#8217;t realized just how bad their child&#8217;s climate anxiety had become. They used this scary situation as a teachable moment for the family.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There wasn&#8217;t a part of me that didn&#8217;t understand why they did it,&#8221; Fornwald said.\u00a0&#8220;That&#8217;s why we really knew we needed to help them find safe and appropriate action, but that they absolutely needed to take part in something that was gonna make them feel like they had power.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n<figure>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Grade 6 student holds a petition in one hand and poster in other that reads create a solution not polution. \"   src=\"https:\/\/i.cbc.ca\/1.7505860.1744226340!\/fileImage\/httpImage\/image.jpg_gen\/derivatives\/original_1180\/protest-signs.jpg?im=\" data-cy=\"image-img\"><\/p><figcaption>Kik\u00e9 Dueck holds petitions they have gathered to deliver to the legislature asking for the provincial government to make action on climate change a priority.  (Submitted by Dennie Fornwald )<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2>From a love of nature to a concern for the planet<\/h2>\n<p>Kik\u00e9&#8217;s love of all things in nature started young. Their mother remembers them picking up a bird book at age three\u00a0and looking at it for three hours straight. Kik\u00e9 is an avid birder and has a keen interest in mushroom identification. They get immersed in guides on mushrooms, native plants and birds\u00a0like other kids would with video games.\u00a0<\/p>\n<div>\n<figure>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Child examines underside of large, white mushroom. \"   src=\"https:\/\/i.cbc.ca\/1.7505835.1744226349!\/fileImage\/httpImage\/image.jpg_gen\/derivatives\/original_1180\/kike-and-mushroom.jpg?im=\" data-cy=\"image-img\"><\/p><figcaption>Kik\u00e9 Dueck is excited about identifying a mushroom.  (Nichole Huck\/CBC )<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Kik\u00e9 says it was two years ago, at age nine, when they first got a book out from the library about climate change.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;I was surprised that life would just go on as normal when these terrible things are happening.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The terrible things Kik\u00e9 is talking about is global warming,<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We are using too much and overexploiting the earth, which I feel will lead to grave consequences.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There is a term for what Kik\u00e9 and many other young people are feeling \u2014 climate anxiety. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/S2667278223000032\">A\u00a02023\u00a0study in the Journal of Climate Change and Health<\/a> surveyed 1,000 young people across Canada and found more than half the kids reported feeling afraid, sad, anxious and powerless. Kik\u00e9 fits into the 37 per cent of kids who reported their feelings about climate change negatively impacted their daily functioning.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Fornwald says there are days when Kik\u00e9 loses their motivation to care about day-to-day basics like getting dressed and going to school or being enthusiastic about the sports they are involved in.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Kik\u00e9 says there are highs and lows.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I feel bad because I&#8217;m not feeling like I&#8217;m doing enough or something like that. But then I eventually feel better and then I feel like I&#8217;m not doing enough again and I&#8217;ll just cycle on and on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Their anxiety\u00a0tends to be worse in the summer when the realities of climate change hit close to home, whether that&#8217;s due to droughts or\u00a0fires. Last year,\u00a0Kik\u00e9 had several track meets cancelled because of smoke from wildfires.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I had to stay inside for like three\u00a0days at a time, which is hard because I really love being outside.&#8221;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Read more stories from the Beautiful Mess series <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/news\/topic\/Tag\/Beautiful%20Mess\">here<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Turning worry into action<\/h2>\n<p>Kik\u00e9 says what seems to help the most is taking action with other people.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>They have connected with the local EnviroCollective, a climate action advocacy group in Regina. The 11-year-old has gone door knocking to collect signatures for a petition to be delivered at the legislature. They&#8217;ve been part of art projects and podcasts\u00a0centred around climate change, and connected with groups such as Better Bus Youth. Kik\u00e9 has also become involved with the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/player\/play\/video\/9.4913419\">Cathedral Forest Project<\/a>, planting an urban forest in a park not far from the family&#8217;s house.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Dueck and Fornwald\u00a0have watched Kik\u00e9 throw themself\u00a0into the forest project, collecting little sticks every time they go outside to propagate new trees. All their windowsills are now filled with tiny jars filled with baby trees that Kik\u00e9 tends to religiously.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They help me deal with climate anxiety because it&#8217;s somewhere to put my care into that isn&#8217;t too hard or far-fetched in the future,&#8221;\u00a0Kik\u00e9 explained.<\/p>\n<div>\n<figure>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"11-year-old wearing Cathedral Village Forest t-shirt looks lovingly at small trees in cups on a windowsill. \"   src=\"https:\/\/i.cbc.ca\/1.7505814.1744226358!\/fileImage\/httpImage\/image.jpg_gen\/derivatives\/original_1180\/propogating-plants.jpg?im=\" data-cy=\"image-img\"><\/p><figcaption>Kik\u00e9 Dueck cares for trees they are propagating at home.  (Nichole Huck\/CBC )<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Fornwald\u00a0has found one challenge is\u00a0setting boundaries to keep their child safe, including prohibiting social media. For now,\u00a0Kik\u00e9 has to find other ways to reach people with their message. They&#8217;re also not allowed to skip school and can only take part in protests when it doesn&#8217;t conflict with their schooling. But Kik\u00e9&#8217;s parents have\u00a0agreed to drive them to\u00a0environmental meetings in the evenings and attend with them when possible.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Fornwald\u00a0said she\u00a0thinks about climate change activism the same way she thinks about mushroom collecting.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If your kid wants to know everything about mushrooms, you have to connect with experts and you have to know something yourself, so you can be safe. Climate change action is similar. We can&#8217;t just send you out into the world to tackle it on your own\u00a0\u2014\u00a0we&#8217;ve gotta go with you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div>\n<figure>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"A mother and child wearing sunhats are crouched on the forest floor with a mushroom guide. \"   src=\"https:\/\/i.cbc.ca\/1.7505826.1744226375!\/fileImage\/httpImage\/image.jpg_gen\/derivatives\/original_1180\/learning-about-plants.jpg?im=\" data-cy=\"image-img\"><\/p><figcaption>Dennie Fornwald is supporting her child&#8217;s interest in mushrooms by learning alongside them and connecting them with experts. (Nichole Huck\/CBC )<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Allowing room for vulnerability<\/h2>\n<p>Dueck said\u00a0navigating this anxiety journey has brought him closer with his child. The two of them don&#8217;t shy away from honest conversations about\u00a0their mental health. Dueck acknowledges he is trying to find\u00a0a balance between protecting his\u00a0child and allowing himself to be vulnerable about his own anxieties. Both of them said\u00a0they feel closer after these candid conversations.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;A lot of time there&#8217;s just thoughts floating around that really can&#8217;t go away and when I talk about them out loud, it really helps,&#8221; said\u00a0Kik\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Kik\u00e9\u00a0is now working with a professional counsellor, who&#8217;s\u00a0teaching the young activist lessons in self-care that will serve them in the long-run.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It doesn&#8217;t feel like a direct action, but taking good care of yourself like sleeping, eating well, exercising, taking rest when you need it is actually an action because we need you to be well so we can keep doing the other things that have a huge impact,&#8221; explained\u00a0Fornwald.\u00a0<\/p>\n<div>\n<figure>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"A mother and father wrap their arms around their 11-year-old child. \"   src=\"https:\/\/i.cbc.ca\/1.7505793.1744226384!\/fileImage\/httpImage\/image.jpg_gen\/derivatives\/original_1180\/dueck-family-photo.jpg?im=\" data-cy=\"image-img\"><\/p><figcaption>Parents Kris Dueck and Dennie Fornwald have found ways to support and protect their child who experiences climate anxiety.  (Nichole Huck\/CBC )<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Following their child&#8217;s lead \u00a0<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">While both parents said they&#8217;ve\u00a0always cared about the environment, Dueck said\u00a0their oldest child has pushed them to be more accountable. They are mindful of driving less and biking to work. Their recycling system is elaborate, diverting almost all of their waste to recycling and compost.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We are doing more thinking about these things and trying to be better citizens and people,&#8221; Dueck said.\u00a0&#8220;That&#8217;s a lesson parents can take, that kids can lead the way in a lot of ways and maybe sometimes we should follow them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And Kik\u00e9 has their own wisdom to pass along.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You don&#8217;t have to take on the entire problem by yourself, just do what you can.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Today, what they can do is care for these baby trees that have taken over their back table \u2014 caring and nurturing the earth while they care for and nurture each other.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em><strong>\u00a0Do you have parenting themes you&#8217;d like to see tackled? Do you know a parent who has some hard-earned wisdom to share? 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