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Kelly Bayett, cofounder of Love Song, a commercial production company<\/p>\n

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Selling a company is often celebrated as a hallmark of entrepreneurial success, yet the emotional complexities accompanying such a transition are seldom discussed. Beyond the financial implications, many founders experience a profound sense of grief <\/a>when parting with an enterprise they\u2019ve built from the ground up. In 2023, the small business acquisition market <\/a>remained relatively stable, with 9,093 businesses sold in the United States, a slight increase from 9,054 in 2022. The total value of these deals rose to $6.5 billion from $6.3 billion.<\/p>\n

Although these transactions are common, the emotional toll they take is rarely discussed. They often blindside entrepreneurs with unexpected feelings of loss, grief and a profound sense of identity displacement. Kelly Bayett, cofounder of the audio post-production company<\/a> Barking Owl, shares her experience selling the business and transitioning to her new venture<\/a>, Love Song, with cofounder Daniel Wolfe.<\/p>\n

\u201cNobody talks about the mourning part,\u201d the cofounder shares during a phone interview. \u201cEverybody thinks selling a company is the dream, but there\u2019s this sadness of realizing it\u2019s no longer yours. It\u2019s like, \u2018I built this thing, and now it\u2019s gone.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

The Grief Of Letting Go As A Founder<\/h2>\n

For Bayett, Barking Owl wasn\u2019t just a business\u2014it was her \u201cbaby,\u201d a creation built on creativity and collaboration. The decision to sell was not taken lightly. After years of success, including accolades and a tightly knit team culture, she realized that the offer to sell the company aligned with both professional and personal circumstances.<\/p>\n

However, selling a business doesn\u2019t just end with signing the papers. As Bayett explains, the emotional aftermath is complex. The transition was particularly challenging when the new leadership introduced changes that altered Barking Owl\u2019s culture<\/a>. Kelly likened the process to sending a child off to college: \u201cYou\u2019re still in their corner, but they\u2019re on their own now.\u201d Despite her efforts to stay connected with the team, she felt the sting of separation, particularly when realizing she no longer had influence over the company\u2019s future.<\/p>\n

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On Set with Love Song Production team Paige Kauffman, Deannie O\u2019Neil and Kelly Bayett, cofounder of … [+]<\/span> Love Song.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Acceptance And Moving Forward<\/h2>\n

Acknowledging and processing grief was a critical step. The cofounder experienced moments of profound sadness, from missing daily interactions with her team to feeling replaced. Yet, she came to understand that loss often accompanies growth. \u201cYou have to lose something to gain something,\u201d she reflects.<\/p>\n

This perspective allowed Kelly to shift her focus to her new venture, Love Song, a commercial production company she cofounded during her transition. Love Song emerged as a side project but quickly gained traction, becoming a thriving business. Bayett poured her energy into creating a company culture at Love Song that mirrored the values she cherished at Barking Owl: mentorship, community and love.<\/p>\n

Building the new company gave her a new sense of professional purpose. \u201cI see what I can do here,\u201d she explains. \u201cI\u2019m looking at what the culture of Love Song is, and how can I make it culturally relevant, filled with love and focused on mentorship?\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s Okay to Feel Sad<\/h2>\n

One of Bayett\u2019s key takeaways for other entrepreneurs is allowing space for emotions during transitions. \u201cIt\u2019s okay to mourn it,\u201d she advises. While the financial and professional benefits of selling were undeniable, she emphasizes that such decisions also require emotional alignment.<\/p>\n

The cofounder stresses the need for entrepreneurs to own their decisions fully. \u201cYou\u2019re constantly torn by the decision you\u2019ve made,\u201d she admits, \u201cbut ultimately, the key is to focus on why you made the choice and what it allows you to achieve.\u201d<\/p>\n

Love Song: Building A New Legacy<\/h2>\n

At Love Song, Bayett has embraced her role as a leader once again, albeit with a fresh perspective. The company has already garnered acclaim, producing commercials for major brands like Adidas, Vans and Apple. Love Song\u2019s unique model prioritizes mentorship, pairing experienced directors with emerging talent to create a supportive and innovative environment.<\/p>\n

This approach has allowed Bayett to channel her passion for fostering creativity and community into a new arena. Her experiences at Barking Owl inform her leadership style, but she\u2019s also grown in ways she didn\u2019t anticipate. Detachment from her first company has given her a broader perspective.<\/p>\n

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Kelly Bayett accepting the Ad Age and Creativity Music and Sound Company of the Year for the 4th … [+]<\/span> consecutive year.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Lessons For Entrepreneurs<\/h2>\n

Bayett\u2019s journey offers valuable insights for entrepreneurs contemplating the sale of their businesses:<\/p>\n