{"id":600409,"date":"2023-01-23T06:49:44","date_gmt":"2023-01-23T12:49:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news.sellorbuyhomefast.com\/index.php\/2023\/01\/23\/ask-hn-what-do-you-do-to-start-and-develop-friendships\/"},"modified":"2023-01-23T06:49:44","modified_gmt":"2023-01-23T12:49:44","slug":"ask-hn-what-do-you-do-to-start-and-develop-friendships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/2023\/01\/23\/ask-hn-what-do-you-do-to-start-and-develop-friendships\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask HN: What do you do to start and develop friendships?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<table id=\"hnmain\" readabilityDataTable=\"0\">\n<tr>\n<td><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr id=\"pagespace\" title=\"Ask HN: What do you do to start and develop friendships?\"><\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>\n<table readabilityDataTable=\"1\">\n<tr id=\"34487606\">\n<td><span><\/span><\/td>\n<td><center><a id=\"up_34487606\" href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/vote?id=34487606&#038;how=up&#038;goto=item%3Fid%3D34487606\"><\/a><\/center><\/td>\n<td><span><a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/item?id=34487606\">Ask HN: What do you do to start and develop friendships?<\/a><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td colspan=\"2\"><\/td>\n<td><span><br \/>\n          <span id=\"score_34487606\">20 points<\/span> by <a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/user?id=dmos62\">dmos62<\/a> <span title=\"2023-01-23T11:26:16\"><a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/item?id=34487606\">1 hour ago<\/a><\/span> <span id=\"unv_34487606\"><\/span> | <a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/hide?id=34487606&#038;goto=item%3Fid%3D34487606\">hide<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/hn.algolia.com\/?query=Ask%20HN%3A%20What%20do%20you%20do%20to%20start%20and%20develop%20friendships%3F&#038;type=story&#038;dateRange=all&#038;sort=byDate&#038;storyText=false&#038;prefix&#038;page=0\">past<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/fave?id=34487606&#038;auth=09ade2f4024715f9077a7fca6b17ae0d553f0007\">favorite<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/item?id=34487606\">14\u00a0comments<\/a>        <\/span>\n              <\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr><\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td colspan=\"2\"><\/td>\n<td>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been reading Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi, which is about the importance of networking and developing lasting relationships, and Keith does talk about preparation (get to know a person before you meet them), about being genuine, about having something to offer, about the importance of being liked, but I think I&#8217;m missing something a bit more fundamental. While I cherish relationships I do build, developing a genuine human bond is somewhat of a mystery to me: it happens sometimes, but infrequently, and doesn&#8217;t seem to be under my control at all.<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr><\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td colspan=\"2\"><\/td>\n<td>\n<form action=\"comment\" method=\"post\"><\/form>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/s.gif\" height=\"10\" width=\"0\"><br \/>\n<center><span><a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/newsguidelines.html\">Guidelines<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/newsfaq.html\">FAQ<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/lists\">Lists<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/github.com\/HackerNews\/API\">API<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/security.html\">Security<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ycombinator.com\/legal\/\">Legal<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ycombinator.com\/apply\/\">Apply to YC<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/mailto:**@*********or.com\" data-original-string=\"BEqMFbvdlhZmGR5kYd630w==7f4zZYcDuiLLi8o\/w9WnHuf3c8n+T11h+Kcau0WSQEgU0Y=\" title=\"This contact has been encoded by Anti-Spam by CleanTalk. 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To finish the decoding make sure that JavaScript is enabled in your browser.\">Contact<\/a><\/span><\/center><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/item?id=34487606\" class=\"button purchase\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Read More<\/a><br \/>\n Leigha Wiers<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ask HN: What do you do to start and develop friendships? 20 points by dmos62 1 hour ago | hide | past | favorite | 14\u00a0comments I&#8217;ve been reading Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi, which is about the importance of networking and developing lasting relationships, and Keith does talk about preparation (get to know<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":600410,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2812,2391,46],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-600409","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-develop","category-start","category-technology"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/600409","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=600409"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/600409\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/600410"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=600409"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=600409"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsycanuse.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=600409"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}