7 Best Valentine’s Day Sex Toy Deals (2023): Vibrators and Suction Toys

Valentine’s day, V-Day, Lupercalia: No matter what you call it, mid-February is a time for love. Or at least that’s what all the greeting cards tell us. I choose to take it literally; this is a time of year to celebrate yourself and your body, as well as your emotional and sexual intimacy. Whether you’re coupled, throupled, or flying solo, we have some great deals on sex toys that will make this year’s Valentine’s Day one to remember. Looking for more deals? We’ve got a bigger roundup with more categories here.

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The Lelo Sila is a suction toy. It uses air pressure to create a stimulating suction sensation. It’s super small and shaped like an adorable little snail, plus its surprisingly powerful motor really delivers on its promise to simulate oral sex. It’s also made of body-safe silicone and is waterproof, making it easy to clean and use in the shower.

The Lelo Enigma Black is a dual-purpose toy. It not only includes a powerful vibrator, but the other end is a suction toy. When you position it just right, it can provide both internal and external stimulation at the same time. The deep rumbly vibes complement the gentle (or powerful, if you prefer) suction from the other end. 

The Hugo vibrating P-spot massager has been a mainstay of our Best Sex Toys guide for over a year now. It’s one of the best toys of its kind we’ve ever tested, and includes a remote control so you don’t have to contort yourself to reach the buttons while it’s in use. 

The classic. Well, almost. This version of the legendary Magic Wand is every bit as big and powerful as its older counterparts, but is rechargeable and wireless, so you’re not tethered to a wall outlet while you use it. It features super long battery life (about three to four hours, depending on use) for a toy like this, and even though it’s a bit large, it’s a fun one to have around. 

The Rose suction toy is an adorable little thing. It’s an air pulse/suction toy just like some of our other favorites, but this one’s stylized like a rosebud. The unusual shape actually makes it really easy to hold and use one-handed, just resting against your body, while the silicone petals add some welcome texture to the experience.

Unbound’s Ollie vibrator comes in a familiar form factor, but unlike the traditional Magic Wand, it’s coated in silicone all around. It’s soft to the touch, and the head is a little squishy and bendable. It’s smaller than the traditional Magic Wand, so it’s a great pick if you have smaller hands. Plus the silicone isn’t as cold as the hard plastic is when you reach for this guy in the middle of the night. The discount for this toy shows up in your shopping cart.

Another one of our favorites, the Bender is a flexible little vibrator that fits comfortably in your hand or pressed against your body. Its flexibility is great for external stimulation and for customizing your internal stimulation. The motors are powerful and rumbly too.