Oscar Mbo accused of abuse as ex-girlfriend Ursula Dlamini breaks years of silence

Ursula Dlamini, the former girlfriend of award-winning producer and DJ Oscar Mbo, has gone public with serious allegations of domestic abuse, igniting widespread debate across social media.

Dlamini shared her story on Instagram, where she posted images she says were taken during their relationship, alongside deeply personal messages about the emotional pain she claims she has carried for years.

In her posts, she reflected on the difficulty of revisiting that period of her life, explaining that despite having moved on, the trauma still resurfaces unexpectedly.

Now married and a mother, Dlamini said the decision to speak out was driven by a need to protect her peace and her family, and to stop shielding someone she believes caused her lasting harm.

She described moments where memories interrupt her daily life, forcing her to relive experiences she says she once endured in silence.

“Today was so triggering for me guys,” she wrote. “Oscar used to abuse me and I have to live with days like these where I’ll get triggered in the middle of a task at work then go about my day like nothing is happening when I’m dying inside. Why am I even protecting this monster?”

In another message, she spoke about accountability and the emotional weight she says still follows her, even though the relationship is long over.

While she acknowledged that her life has moved forward, she suggested that healing remains difficult without justice.

“I’m doing it for myself and my kids and my husband but I just wish he could pay and be held accountable for what he did to me all those years. I’ll never heal,” she shared.

Her revelations prompted an outpouring of reactions online, with many users expressing support and praising her for speaking up about an issue often kept behind closed doors.

Others urged caution, emphasizing the seriousness of the allegations and the importance of due legal process.

Oscar Mbo has not publicly responded to the claims. The allegations have not been tested in court.

Oscar Mbo is also being accused of GBV , hectic 😓 pic.twitter.com/gdguMdRIO6

— The Instigator (@Am_Blujay) January 13, 2026